Women can lead and make it to the top
In our latest blog post, Laida K. Chongo, A Women's Rights Advocate from Zambia, a graduate of Mass Communication from the University of Zambia who has a passion for mentoring young women and women empowerment!
With Zambia heading to the polls this year in August (2021) very few women are vying
for political positions, one Political party however took a brave stance and pointed a
young female as their Party national spokesperson, a position she deserved but
shockingly a male Journalist like many other minds in our country decided to humiliate
her on radio but asking her who she was sleeping with to attain such a position and if
she was still a virgin in the political space!
At some point in this Male dominated political world, we had an alpha female, a global
political icon who helped shape up a future of her country with a mix of brilliance and
iron; she later came to be known as the “Iron Lady” and I want to be sure we all
remember Margaret Thatcher.
In one of her addresses, she once remarked that; “I’ve got a woman’s ability to stick to
a job and get on with it when everyone else walks off and leaves it”
Thatcher somehow defied conventional wisdom that a woman was not meant to lead.
Even nowadays, it is still easy to pin-point the women who have and will continue to
break through the proverbial glass ceiling that some things are exclusively a male
On that note, I take you to Oprah Winfrey, a woman of colour who vaulted from
Chicago television host to global fame for her work in business and philanthropy.
Today, Forbes Magazine ranks her among the most influential women on the planet.
She is a kind who continues to excel and she does not show signs of stopping any time
We have our own intellectually gifted daughter of the soil, Zambia’s own Dambisa Moyo
who was named a world Economic Forum Young Global Leader in 2009 and most
recently Mizinga Melu who has braved the odds throughout her career life and is now
the CEO of ABSA bank in Zambia and she is the founder of a non-governmental
organization called When Females Lead which helps young females to excel in their
These are women who continue demonstrating that stereotype that women are inferior
to men is a mere myth that has fed the mistrust and suspicion of most men and that it
is bound to change and fade with so many women currently rising to higher positions of
Women can equally lead and make meaning contributions because today have more
control over who they are and whom they want to be in the society and their status,
they are free to make choices about their educational and other opportunities.
Females like men have equal ability to lead and most women have proved that they are
exceptionally good leaders while others have proved that they are even more effective
leaders than same male leaders.
Women have risen to the task and are not only contributing to development in various sectors but they are now employers.
However, there are many reasons today why there seems to be a gap between men
and women and some of them are partly psychological, economical, and traditional
while some of them are mere issues of self-esteem.
For instance, we know of some traditions even in our own communities which prohibit
women to aspire for positions of leadership, certain stereotypes are taught to both men
and women at very tender ages about gender roles such that women and girls begin to
sabotage themselves, internalizing, adopting and believing in such views which proves
to be an impediment to lasting progress.
To tradition, a woman should always be subjective and she should not be in anyway seen to become what most men consider to be their own domain.
You find that because of such stereotypes, women are indirectly taught to embrace less
technical courses such as nursing, tailoring and teaching, the kind that involve working
with people rather than things and its vice versa for men, you would even notice a little
girl would rather play with a doll rather than a car.
Such kind of a society is not favorable for either a girl child or a woman and stereotypes
should be broken and this has to begin from a home. A contemporary parent should
work to revolutionize the mindset of a girl child. Firstly, we should come to a place
where children are treated equally and where impossible does not exist in the
vocabulary. Girl children should not be taught what a man can do and what they cannot
because that is where most problems stem from.
Not that a woman should always try to displace a man from his position of authority,
but it is just right that women should be raised to believe that women can stand on
equal footing with men.
I spoke to a single mother entrepreneur who has been in the same business for over 30
years now and targets school leavers whom she teaches various skills such as wedding
decorations, customer service, resource and people management to mention but a few.
She says she started the business after the bad spending habits of her husband who
she made a brutal decision to divorce and her business has not only created wealth for
her but has developed skills for a lot of young people and also enabled them to serve to
further their education.
Women who are financially independent do not only protect themselves from the
different forms of abuse but they better their own lives as well as the lives of
generations to come because they always put their family’s needs before anything else,
they make long term investments for their children and their children’s children thus
avoiding poverty which others are affected by when their spouses die.
However, some women despite been competent and furthering their education, still fail
to rise to the organizations ladder because they are never taken seriously, their
professional contribution unlike that of a man are at times ignored until a man
authenticates it. It is time women knew that they do not need any approval from a man
and that they can stand on their own. A lady tells her story of how her male manager
took advantage of this myth and persuaded her to buy in the idea of having a
relationship with him in order to have her views heard as he would easily authorize